Private Coaching for Leaders Who Feel Successful and Lost at the Same Time.
Stop trying to be the "right" kind of leader. Start being the leader you actually are..
You're good at what you do. You've built things, earned things, proven things.
But somewhere along the way, success started feeling... off.
Maybe you're the entrepreneur who can't remember the last time your business excited you instead of exhausted you.
Or the executive who sits in leadership meetings thinking, "Does everyone else feel like they're faking this too?"
You're making moves and hitting goals, but internally?
You're second-guessing every decision.
Setting boundaries and then immediately backing down.
Showing up confident one day, imposter syndrome the next.
The problem isn't your capabilities. It's that you outgrew who you were—and you're still trying to lead as that person.
My work is about helping you figure out who you're becoming so you can stop performing and start just... being that person.
PRIVATE COACHING
You outgrew yourself. Now you're trying to lead as someone you're not. It's not working.
You're successful on paper but feel misaligned inside. You know something needs to shift—you just can't figure out what or how.
Here's what we do: We get clear on who you actually are now (not three years ago). We identify the patterns running your decisions and replace them with something that works. We build your systems for making choices, setting boundaries, and showing up as yourself without the performance anxiety.
This is 3-6 months of private coaching, completely tailored to you. No generic frameworks. No group dynamics. Just focused work on closing the gap between who you are and how you're leading.
What We Actually Do Together"
We figure out who you're becoming—and how to actually be that person.
This isn't traditional coaching. I'm not going to give you a framework to implement or tell you to journal about your feelings for 30 days.
Here's what working together actually looks like:
We get clear on who you actually are now
Not the version of you from three years ago. Not who you think you should be. Who you actually are right now—and who you're trying to become. Once you know that, everything else gets easier.
We figure out why you keep doing the things you don't want to do
The overcommitting. The people-pleasing. The saying yes when you mean no. We find the patterns running the show and replace them with something that actually works for you.
We build your decision-making system
So you can make a choice and actually stick with it without the 3am spiral of "did I make the wrong call?" You'll learn how to trust yourself again.
We get your boundaries to actually stick
Not just "I should set boundaries" theory. Real, implementable boundaries that you can hold without feeling like you're being selfish or difficult.
We make this sustainable
Because burning out every quarter isn't a business model. You'll figure out how to operate at your level without sacrificing your sanity, health, or relationships.
"Is This For You?”
This is for you if:
→ You look successful on paper but feel misaligned inside
→ You're an entrepreneur who can't remember the last time your business felt yours
→ You're an executive who earned the role but still feels like you're performing it
→ You make great decisions for everyone else but terrible ones for yourself
→ You're done with surface-level advice and want someone who'll be real with you
→ You're ready to do the work, not just talk about doing the work
This is NOT for you if:
→ You want someone to cheerlead and validate you without pushing back
→ You're looking for quick hacks or magic fixes
→ You're not willing to look at your own patterns
→ You need someone to tell you exactly what to do
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offerings
Group Coaching
Lead Yourself First Lab
Learn the core systems for figuring out who you're becoming and how to operate from that place—alongside other entrepreneurs and executives navigating similar transitions.
What you get:
6 bi-weekly group sessions over 90 days. Weekly practices you can implement in 10 minutes. Real-time coaching during sessions. A community of ambitious people who actually get what you're dealing with. The frameworks and tools to make decisions faster, set boundaries that stick, and lead without the constant performance anxiety.
This works best if:
You're resourceful and can apply frameworks to your own situation
You're not in crisis, but you know something needs to shift
You benefit from learning alongside other ambitious people
You're ready to implement between sessions without hand-holding
You want structured guidance at a more accessible price point
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Corporate Training & Workshops
Public Speaking:
Let’s Collaborate
Speaking Engagements for Audiences Who Are Tired of the Same Old Leadership Talk
I speak to entrepreneurs, executives, and rising leaders about what actually happens when you're building something impressive while quietly falling apart—and what to do about it.
What makes my talks different:
No rah-rah motivation. No "10 tips to be a better leader." Just honest conversations about the gap between who you were and who you're becoming, why success can feel hollow even when you're winning, and what it actually takes to lead when you don't have it all figured out.
Your audience will leave with frameworks they can use immediately—not just inspiration that fades by Tuesday.
LET'S CONNECT →
For companies who want their leaders to actually lead differently—not just hear about it in a conference room
This is for you if:
You're leading HR, L&D, or executive development
Your team is "fine" on paper but struggling internally
You need training that creates actual shifts, not just inspiration
You're tired of workshops that sound good but change nothing
You want your leaders to walk away with tools they'll actually use
What you get:
Half-day or full-day workshops, leadership retreats, or ongoing training programs for your team. Topics include: leading through transitions, decision-making under pressure, boundaries without burnout, moving from performing to owning leadership.
I don't do corporate theater. Your team will leave with frameworks they can use Monday morning, and the honest conversations they've been avoiding.
Format: Custom designed for your team
New Book: Becoming You
Grab a copy of Becoming You, the latest book featuring me as a contributing writer. Gain insight into living an authentic life from myself and other coaching experts.
Is this coaching right for you?
You're successful but misaligned
You've built something, earned something, proven something—but you can't shake the feeling that you're living someone else's version of success. You look good on paper but feel disconnected from your own life. If you're tired of performing success and ready to figure out who you're actually becoming, this work makes sense.
You're willing to look at your patterns
This isn't about affirmations or cheerleading. We're going to look at why you keep doing the things you don't want to do—the overcommitting, the people-pleasing, the boundaries you can't maintain. If you're ready to examine what's actually driving your decisions (not just what you wish was driving them), we can work together.
You're ready to do something about it
You don't need more insight. You need integration. If you're prepared to take what we figure out and actually implement it in your real life—not just talk about it or journal about it—then this coaching will work. You'll leave every session with clear actions tied to your actual calendar, conversations, and decisions..
You want someone who'll be honest with you
You're not looking for validation or someone to tell you you're doing great. You want a strategic partner who'll see your blind spots, call you on your patterns, and hold you to the standard you say you want. If you're ready for direct feedback without the sugar-coating, we'll work well together.
Sound like you? Book a clarity call and we'll figure out if working together makes sense.
Kind words from the community
Suzette has helped me establish a rhythm in my personal and professional life that I did not know possible. Our sessions are productive, restorative, and incredibly worthwhile. We tackle some challenges I am facing, which allow me to feel all my emotions and pick up myself with strength and hope. One of my favorite part of our sessions is how Suzette, can understand my feelings and give me advices based on her life events, I find empathy and support. I truly feel accomplished after our sessions thanks to Suzette's effort to connect with me and guide me throughout. I can honestly say I leave with such a peaceful feeling and look forward to our next session. I recommend Suzette wholeheartedly! Thank you for all you do.
— Val
Suzette is an amazing life coach. From the moment I met her, it felt easy to be completely open and honest with her about the challenges I was facing in my life. Talking to Suzette, I felt like I was having a conversation with a friend. I always felt safe and free of any judgment. She provided me with great insight and support to face these issues. Along with providing me with guidance, she also taught me how to dig deeper than just the surface of my issues and the responses I once had. I always look forward to every session and conversation with her.
— Alixa
Before working with you, I was stuck. It was like I was on autopilot, not even realizing how much these things were holding me back. But you helped me shine a light on all of that. Your insights, wisdom, and uncanny ability to cut through the noise have been nothing short of magical. I'm finally able to step into my own power and trust my gut. I wanted to let you know that your coaching has been a game-changer for me. Your infectious energy, unwavering support, and straight-to-the-point advice have made our sessions both enlightening and fun. Your passion for empowering others is truly inspiring, and I'm so grateful for the opportunity to work with you.